Have never look forward to 2013 so so desperately. Even though 2012 have been wonderful to me, but I wish 2013 is even better, does that mean I am really greedy? I am satisty with what I have and quite comfortable at my current lifestyle, but who does not wish they can do even better, there is never good but only better. Anyway, the last two most upset occurrences happend all within the past week. I lost my most beloved Logitech headphones and a domestic helper that ran away accusing us for mistreatment. It caused so much headache and just mentally exhausted dealing with all the SMS messages and report here and there. May be peer pressure is something that affects lots of us, just by meeting and knowing the good and the bad people will make a difference in life. Now I start to worry about my son.
Whatever this implies, life goes one, I cannot let these bumps slow me down or discourage me from achieving my own goals, it definitely upsets you for awhile but if they are out of your control, all you can do is let time erase the bad and look forward to build your present.
Family wise, son will become two this year and may attend pre-school. Seeing him grow brings great joy, now that he is still in Canada, I need to be with him every moment that I can as he may be leaving here soon, return to Hong Kong because there are many more people from my wife's side to look after him. As long distance relationship goes, not much have changed, I guess not until my son will move here permenantly that wife will also come here with him.
Friends wise, met a lot of new and interesting people this year. Even weirder, wilder, funnier, crazier, younger, older than the ones I met the previous year. But to keep the friendship going, it will take more than just a few crazy drinking nights. More or less some have became lesser friends due to loss of contact and no replies from my greetings, and ones that have grown deeper friendship as we were able to spend more time together and getting to know each other better. As you get to know how they are, the more you tolerate their weaknesses because you have learned that they are just that type of person and never up to you to change them. Since no change will happen, you just have to accept them for who they are.
On a self-reflect, I think I have grown more because of seeing more, but also retreated because of not doing more. Do I dare to make a new years resolution??
Returned to work end of April, starting with the car accident, seeing my son's horrific nose bleed and ending the year with losing items and dealing with a missing person issue have wrapped up my 2012. 2013 may not be a fruitful or good year for me but there are those out there which are less fortunate. As I was told I already have much and should not be greedy.
Happy Happy New Year.
Whatever this implies, life goes one, I cannot let these bumps slow me down or discourage me from achieving my own goals, it definitely upsets you for awhile but if they are out of your control, all you can do is let time erase the bad and look forward to build your present.
Family wise, son will become two this year and may attend pre-school. Seeing him grow brings great joy, now that he is still in Canada, I need to be with him every moment that I can as he may be leaving here soon, return to Hong Kong because there are many more people from my wife's side to look after him. As long distance relationship goes, not much have changed, I guess not until my son will move here permenantly that wife will also come here with him.
Friends wise, met a lot of new and interesting people this year. Even weirder, wilder, funnier, crazier, younger, older than the ones I met the previous year. But to keep the friendship going, it will take more than just a few crazy drinking nights. More or less some have became lesser friends due to loss of contact and no replies from my greetings, and ones that have grown deeper friendship as we were able to spend more time together and getting to know each other better. As you get to know how they are, the more you tolerate their weaknesses because you have learned that they are just that type of person and never up to you to change them. Since no change will happen, you just have to accept them for who they are.
On a self-reflect, I think I have grown more because of seeing more, but also retreated because of not doing more. Do I dare to make a new years resolution??
Returned to work end of April, starting with the car accident, seeing my son's horrific nose bleed and ending the year with losing items and dealing with a missing person issue have wrapped up my 2012. 2013 may not be a fruitful or good year for me but there are those out there which are less fortunate. As I was told I already have much and should not be greedy.
Happy Happy New Year.
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